You’re in the right place if you’re ready to let go of control so you can take charge of your life

Old keys don’t open new doors.

And when change is the only constant?

The key is authenticity-

Try to ignore it & you’ll feel blocked from feeling grateful for your life because you know you’re not fully fulfilled.

Try to fight it & you’ll feel restless thinking about what you know you want, but not actually believing you can actually have it.

Try to bargain with it & you’ll feel inadequate thinking you should be able to figure it all out on your own.

Being disconnected from your true self will leave you overthinking, underperforming, and feeling stuck because you know 2 things:

  1. “I can’t fucking live like this anymore”

  2. “I don’t know what to do, but I have to do something

The good news is, you are in charge of your life & there are multiple ways out-

and it won’t be through gaslighting yourself into being grateful for the life you have, hoping for the “right time” or “right thing” to come along, nor through pushing yourself to keep doing more.

It all starts by believing in yourself.

  • "I was looking for a life coach, but instead I found a shaman within Jen. She holds space beautifully and has helped me feel more centered in my soul essence. It's exactly what I needed!"

    Dyah M.

  • “Jen helped me through one of the most difficult times of my life and I truly was a benefactor from her world class listening skills. Sometimes the slightest shift in perspective can be the difference to your eternity.”

    Charles C.

  • “If you’re committed to self growth, I strongly recommend working with Jen because she’ll help open your mind to what has truly been holding you back. Thank you Jen!!”

    Kacey W.

  • "Allowing myself to truly feel my emotions was terrifying, but the words Jen spoke to me that day were the exact words I needed to hear to enact change in my life. After being stagnant for so long, I was finally able to start moving in the direction of growth."

    Thy T.

  • “In many ways she is the perfect coach - inspiring you through her own actions and way of life to push beyond your perceived limits. Jen is good. Life-changing level of good.”

    Spyridon M.

  • "Jen NAILED it- all my issues with procrastination, fear around my job, and all the obstacles I put in my own way are 100% because I haven't trusted my own decision making. I've started to notice this is the smallest ways and many months later, I'm still reaping the benefits of the work we did together."

    Stefanie F.

Chances are, you’re filled up on self-awareness- but you need implementation

I’ll show you how to permanently break out of the habitual B.S. your brain feeds you & re-install the self confidence that will have you living a purposeful, abundant, and freeing life.

Your intuition isn’t lost or unavailable

it’s actually living, breathing, and active inside of you right now (even if you don’t fully feel it) and I know that because you literally wouldn’t be reading this if it wasn’t.

Just like how your basic human instincts keep your subconscious mind running, constantly scanning for danger, ready to push you into fight-or-flight,

Your intuition is always on (or fighting to stay on) keeping your spirit running, constantly magnetizing people, situations, opportunities, and signs your way, guiding you to your power, purpose, and presence.

AND, just like how unresolved trauma, having underdeveloped emotional intelligence, and an unregulated nervous system will result in a poor mental health, hypervigilance, and living on survival mode,

Having things like a loud inner critic, outdated beliefs and desires, and unprocessed emotions will result in low self-esteem, barricades of ego, and stagnant energy keeping your intuition blocked.

ALSO-

I hate to break it to you, but if you’re a self-help junkie…

Your intuition is also off-kilter because it’s drowned out by the 17 different podcasts you listen to, the 32 self-help books you read this year, and the advice of the 264 different life coaches, therapists, healers, spiritual gurus, psychics, and psychologists you follow on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube.

But the good news is, once you’re aware of the conditioning running your conscious and conscious mind, you can UN-condition and RE-train it to hear your soul’s whispers once again!

INTRODUCING

Soul Whispering

Close the gap between, “I want to be,” and, “I am!”

Proven Results

You’ll love feeling reinvigorated, confident, and focused after our monthly deep dive sessions. My client’s average a 35% increase in their quality of life, and a 41% decrease in stress after working with me for 3-6 months. 100% (yes, actually) of my clients feel more clear, confident, and self-connected after working together after just one session. If it works for hundreds of others, it will work for you too.

Conscious Life Coaching

Your quality of life is determined by your quality of thoughts. Elevating your consciousness is how you stop wasting time overthinking and effectively take aligned action in the direction you want to go. Coaching puts a mirror to your decision making process, shows you distortions and misalignments, and recalibrates it to be incredibly efficient at seeing the truth of your situation and creating a clear path forward.

Award Winning Hypnotherapy

Take the subconscious route for faster results- you have the option to add Rapid Transformational Therapy® Hypnotherapy session(s) as part of your Soul Whispering transformation. RTT® is like goo-gone for your subconscious mind. It's a multi-award winning therapeutic approach created by therapist, Marissa Peer, that unblocks deep-seated limiting beliefs & codes in new, incredible, beneficial self-concepts.

Minimal Structure, Maximum Flow

With 2 timeframe options, a 3-month container for most people, or a 6-month Soulopreneur container for those focused on business growth and development, Soul Whispering allows you come as you are to deep dive into your current challenges, remove subconscious and energetic blocks, and get what you need in the moment. With in-between session email support, you can rest easy and live audaciously knowing you have the perfect amount of support.

Mindset & Heartset

My unique Soul Whispering approach is rooted in the understanding that mindset is not enough- our brains are tools to help us create the life we desire, but we need an equally strong heartset- the emotional capacity, intelligence, and resiliency necessary to hold the abundance of joy, love, and success you want. I combines the pragmatics of mindset work, psychology, and science-based strategies as well heart-based wisdom and emotional intelligence so you can truly have it all (and keep it that way).

Spiritual Guidance

You being you is your highest calling. The success, happiness, freedom, and meaningful life you’re searching for can only manifest through authenticity. Through Soul Whispering, I use esoteric wisdom, tarot, meditation, Human Design, Astrology, and energetics to help you evolve holistically into your highest potential. Every piece of guidance is shared with the intention to honor your soul’s deepest wisdom, keep you in alignment with your light, and navigate the dark nights of the soul with love, truth, and integrity.

Soul Whispering is your ALL-ACCESS PASS to the most effective methods that bring you into alignment

Your journey starts with one application

SANTA MONICA, CA

In-Person Intensive

  • Soul searchers & truth seekers

    Those wanting a non-judgmental yet honest and direct mirror and guide to help navigate their life path

    Those who are serious about cultivating a healthy relationship with themselves, others, and life itself

    Those interested in opening and upgrading their intuitive gifts

    Those who want an awakening beyond therapy, but not as far as ayahuasca

    Those with an open mind and are wanting to shift their internal reality to experience the most aligned, fulfilled, and authentic external reality

    Those wanting to do deep healing and experience expansive growth in a rare and sacred in-person container combined with the soul nourishment of being in nature

  • My Soul Whispering philosophy

    Tarot, human design, astrology, hypnosis, mediation, mindset coaching, physical movement, cord cutting, energy transmutation, shadow work

    Honestly- you'll be amazed with what the power of the space held being for you can do

  • Scheduling:

    • Tuesdays/ Wednesdays/ Sundays

    • Half Day: 10am-2pm or 2pm-6pm

    • Full Day: 10am-6pm

    Preparation:

    • Find your birth date/ birth time/ birth place information

    Human Things:

    • Vegan snacks & non-alcoholic drinks will be provided

    • Lunch at Erewhon provided for the full day intensive

    • Emo & bio breaks whenever needed

3 Month Coaching Intensive

  • Those who want a complete transformation purely through mindset coaching, emotional processing, and energetics. Great for those who simply don’t want to be hypnotized.

    • Focus on the Present: You don’t need to wait to feel successful and happy, you’ll feel it now and build on it to create the future vision you have planned

    • Clarity of Purpose: Gain deeper insight into your values, passions, and life purpose, while taking action to align their actions with their true aspirations.

    • Reduced Stress: Stop the overthinking and reduce your mental load in session while also building your skills to self-regulate and increase your capacity to handle stress

    • Healthier Relationship with Self & Others: As you grow your emotional intelligence, clear your subconscious, and align your energy, you’ll be able to identify, articulate, tend to, and communicate your needs and wants with ease

    • Increased Trust in Yourself and Others: You’ll be able to experience more compassion for yourself and others while trusting that you’re making the best decision for yourself.

    • Increased Intuition & Activation: Tap into source energy, experience less resistance in life, and make decisions much faster and easier

    • Skillfulness at Handling Life: Uncertainty, roadblocks, and setbacks will bother you less and you’ll find a sense of peace even when faced with the unknown

    • Letting Go of Old & Bad Habits: Understand the cause of these habits and work on reducing or eliminate unwanted behaviors while making it easier to engage in and maintain your desired behavior

    • Increased Self-Awareness: Each session encourages self-reflection, opening perspective, and introspection, leading to greater self-awareness and understanding.

    • Empowerment and Confidence: Life coaching techniques, coupled with energetic principles work to help you overcome limiting beliefs and self-doubt, can empower individuals to build confidence, assertiveness, and resilience in pursuing your goals.

    • Goal Setting, Accountability, and Achievement: You’ll have space to focus on clear, achievable goals aligned with their values and vision, and overcome barriers or self-sabotage that may impede progress.

    • Emotional Healing and Release: Combining hypnotherapy with spiritual guidance can facilitate emotional healing, forgiveness, and release of past traumas or negative emotions, fostering inner peace and emotional resilience.

    • Spiritual Growth and Connection: Incorporating spiritual guidance into hypnotherapy and life coaching practices can deepen individuals' connection to their spiritual beliefs, values, and higher purpose, leading to greater fulfillment and inner harmony.

    • Mind-Body-Spirit Alignment: This integrated approach addresses not only mental and emotional aspects but also spiritual dimensions, promoting holistic well-being and alignment of mind, body, and spirit.

    • Transformational Change: Profound transformation and personal growth, leading to a more fulfilling and meaningful life journey.

  • 12 x Weekly 55-minute Life Coaching/ Soul Whispering Sessions
    3 Month access to all my courses and classes here
    In-Between Session Support over Email & Instagram

  • $5,555

    Note: if you want to meet in-person in the Los Angeles area, please note this in your application and we can discuss options

3 Month + RTT® Hypnotherapy

  • Those who want subconscious support to accelerate their growth while focusing on getting help in navigating their current life transitions, goals, and changes

    • Let Go of the Past: Hypnotherapy is phenomenal at clearing old pains and beliefs so you can start fresh

    • Clarity of Purpose: Gain deeper insight into your values, passions, and life purpose, while taking action to align their actions with their true aspirations.

    • Reduced Stress: Stop the overthinking and reduce your mental load in session while also building your skills to self-regulate and increase your capacity to handle stress

    • Healthier Relationship with Self & Others: As you grow your emotional intelligence, clear your subconscious, and align your energy, you’ll be able to identify, articulate, tend to, and communicate your needs and wants with ease

    • Increased Trust in Yourself and Others: You’ll be able to experience more compassion for yourself and others while trusting that you’re making the best decision for yourself.

    • Increased Intuition & Activation: Tap into source energy, experience less resistance in life, and make decisions much faster and easier

    • Skillfulness at Handling Life: Uncertainty, roadblocks, and setbacks will bother you less and you’ll find a sense of peace even when faced with the unknown

    • Letting Go of Old & Bad Habits: Whether it’s overeating, drinking, negative thinking, or doom scrolling- hypnotherapy combined with coaching offers an effective way to reduce or eliminate unwanted behaviors while making it easier to engage in and maintain your desired behavior

    • Increased Self-Awareness: Hypnotherapy can facilitate exploration of subconscious beliefs and patterns, while life coaching encourages self-reflection and introspection, leading to greater self-awareness and understanding.

    • Empowerment and Confidence: Life coaching techniques, coupled with hypnotherapy to overcome limiting beliefs and self-doubt, can empower individuals to build confidence, assertiveness, and resilience in pursuing their goals.

    • Goal Setting, Accountability, and Achievement: Integrating hypnotherapy and life coaching enables individuals to set clear, achievable goals aligned with their values and vision, and overcome barriers or self-sabotage that may impede progress.

    • Emotional Healing and Release: Combining hypnotherapy with spiritual guidance can facilitate emotional healing, forgiveness, and release of past traumas or negative emotions, fostering inner peace and emotional resilience.

    • Spiritual Growth and Connection: Incorporating spiritual guidance into hypnotherapy and life coaching practices can deepen individuals' connection to their spiritual beliefs, values, and higher purpose, leading to greater fulfillment and inner harmony.

    • Mind-Body-Spirit Alignment: This integrated approach addresses not only mental and emotional aspects but also spiritual dimensions, promoting holistic well-being and alignment of mind, body, and spirit.

    • Transformational Change: Profound transformation and personal growth, leading to a more fulfilling and meaningful life journey.

  • Month 1

    1 x 55-minute Pre-Hypnosis Coaching Session
    1 x 90-120 minute RTT® Hypnotherapy Sessions
    1 x Personalized Hypnosis Audios
    1 x 30-minute Follow-Up Call

    Month 2 & 3
    8 x Weekly 55-minutes Soul Whispering/ Life Coaching Sessions

    3 month access to all courses and classes here

  • $5,555

    Note: if you want to meet in-person in the Los Angeles area, please note this in your application and we can discuss options

6 Month Soulopreneur Track

  • For new/growing business owners, entrepreneurs, and practitioners. We’ll be focusing on 3 areas- confidence, money, and time/productivity.

  • Everything from the 3 Month intensives and hypnotherapy AND

    • Confidence to show up as a CEO/ professional/ expert in your craft

    • Pricing confidence and ability to easily charge what is in alignment for you

    • Healed money beliefs and unblocking your ability to receive money, compliments, and abundance

    • Confidence to show up on social media, talk about your offer, and stranger IRL

    • Create a values-aligned business that you genuinely feel good running

    • Create a sustainable business that protects against burnout, is uniquely tailored to your energy levels/ human design, and works for you

    • Be rooted in self-trust and stop outsourcing important business decisions to others- feel comfortable navigating uncertainty and wipe away the fear of failure

    • Find your flow- never question your productivity again and actually 10x your efficiency

    • Incredible work-life integration from someone who has knows your personal life is just as important, if not more, as your business success and takes your holistic happiness serously

  • Months 1, 3, 5
    - 55-minute Pre-Hypnosis Coaching Session
    - 90-120 minute RTT® Hypnotherapy Sessions
    - Personalized Hypnosis Audios
    - 30-minute Follow-Up Call

    Month 2, 4, 6
    - Weekly 55-minutes Soul Whispering/ Life Coaching Sessions

  • $10,000
    or, 3 monthly payments of $3,500

    Note: if you want to meet in-person in the Los Angeles area, please note this in your application and we can discuss options

The benefits of following your intuition compounds- all while paying you in dividends of time, money, and energy

“The investment I made paid itself off in just a few weeks- it's been so helpful. Our sessions stayed with me all week and have a profound impact on me. I've been creating a guiding principle around my decision making and trusting my decisions. Jen NAILED it- all my issues with procrastination, fear around my job, following my passion, and all the obstacles I put in my own way are 100% because I haven't trusted my own decision making. I've notice this is the smallest ways and it has been a majorly illuminating thing for me. Several months later and I’m still thriving and reaping the benefits of our time together."

— Stefanie F.

I’m Jen Cui, the Soul Whisperer

I see you for who you truly are, the limitless potential you have, and catalyze a soul fire within you so you can shine as your authentic self.

My education, intuitive gifts, personal healing journey, human design, and professional experience allows me to see past the B.S., guide your energy through it’s evolution, and see a new path forward to give you perspective. My Libra rising also helps ground spiritual concepts while expanding scientific principles and deliver the truth in a balanced, grounded, yet activating way.

I know our liberation is tied to one another which makes me already deeply invested in your growth and evolution- even if I haven’t met you yet- because you didn’t just coincidently find your way here out of all the billions of pages on the internet.

This meeting, happened for a reason.

And trust me, I know the mind-f*ck of waking up from the matrix creates in your 3-D reality, and I’m here to help. (read more about my story here)

Get Inspired.

Hear from the people who are living their transformations now and forever.

 

“Prior to working with Jen, I was using logic to try to navigate my feelings. I wanted my internal state to be organizable, predictable and wanted my emotions to follow marching orders. I thought that if only I could figure myself out, then I would be okay. She taught me that doing so was to completely deny the true nature of the soul and of human emotions. By working with her, I learned to surrender to the innate wisdom of the soul, which does not fit itself into any kind of analytical structure. I realized that my emotions aren’t something to have authority over, but waves to be ridden. It wasn’t always easy or comfortable to detach from my logic-based belief system, which was what I thought to be my life raft in a world of uncertainty. Jen both made me feel safe enough and pushed me enough to relax my grip and consider an alternative way of self-perception. Her meditations and tarot readings always left me with a new layer of awareness and insights to contemplate. It was a joy to have her as my soul shaman. I still struggle sometimes, but my relationship with my feelings has come so very far. It no longer feels like I have to battle my emotions – to the contrary, they are my most important signals and driving forces. Thank you, Jen!”

— Dyah H.

“Before starting with Jen, I was experiencing increasing levels of burnout and anxiety. I didn’t know how to deal with it, and felt too mentally exhausted and overwhelmed to actively do something about it. After 4 thrilling years in my career, I found myself unsure of my next move and feeling rather lost. I felt lazy, ashamed, like I was wasting time, and wasting all those hardworking years I spent “getting ahead.” Alternatively, all I wanted to feel was a sense of peace, happiness, and purpose. My sessions with Jen helped me see the honest truth about the unnecessary pressure I put on myself, what my body and spirit truly needed, and how to reset my mind and reinvent myself. I’m already seeing it pay off in my career. Now I can see things more clearly. After years of working nonstop, I was extremely tired and needed rest, and taking time for rest is okay! The truth is that you can have time for self care AND be a badass entrepreneur.

— Kacey W. Read Kacey’s FULL transformation here

 

"I realized that the biggest barrier holding me back is related to my relationship with money; I simply don't think I'm worth the investment. It's hard for me to realize that self-investment is one of the most valuable things I can do for myself, but just acknowledging that via writing this helped tremendously. I made the payment, taking that first step towards the life I want to live, and I couldn't be more excited. Overall, after working with Jen, I've become someone who trusts my decisions, can allow myself to show up freely, and feel more present because my mind isn’t thinking about how I "should" act or how I "should" speak. An unintended benefit was me letting go of toxic productivity- I don't have any guilt associated with doing nothing anymore. I’ve allowed myself to “just be” and feel so much more like me now! Thank you for guiding me through this journey!!!”
— Frances L.

 

“My life has changed so much since I’ve started working with Jen and I think that it’s changed for the better. I just really realized that there are ways that I can help myself, my mental health is not out of my hands. It’s comforting to know this, the hard part is executing the steps to do things to help myself. I really liked the tarot readings that we did, I found it helpful to visualize my life. I would definitely recommend life coaching to everyone and I would recommend Jen to all my friends of my age. I was really able to connect with Jen and I felt like she could understand me better especially because we are similar in age and there have similarities in our lives. I was able to tackle privilege for the first time and feel comfortable talking to someone about my relationship with privilege.”

— Trine J.

 

“I was going through a tough time before seeing Jen, I lost some friends due to my own mistakes and was shaming myself for not being "adult enough." I was working two jobs to help pay my way through grad school - and got smited by the "Basketball Gods", completely blowing out my achilles in a pickup game. Jen helped me through one of the most difficult times of my life by meticulously exploring some of my self-defeating thought patterns, and I truly was a benefactor from her world class listening skills. As someone who studies animation and has their own cartoon streetwear brand (Ballskis.com)- she left me with a helpful Fairly Odd Parents analogy, and referenced how in one episode adults were all greyed out and boring, but Timmy Turner still had his pink hat, maintaining that curious joyful aesthetic. If you've never seen the show, go watch it - but it resonated with me because sometimes the slightest shift in perspective can be the difference to your eternity.”

— Charles C.

 

My way of thinking changed drastically! No longer am I feeling like the victim of circumstance and trying to make the world fit my own story. I am my own story and I decide how to approach and live life, with freedom and limitless potential.”

— Brandon T.

 
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Before my journey, I was constantly dieting and feeling awful about myself. I genuinely thought that I was not worthy of anything good. Jen has helped me to challenge my negative beliefs and find more peace with food. I also feel like Jen has helped me to understand that whatever I am feeling is okay and to not fight how I feel. Jen has helped me understand my spirituality more and I have developed such a confidence with my body and personality that I am so grateful for. I have also developed a trust in others and the world that I did not have before.”

— Grace B.

 

“I wish I had been taught these tool and life skills to regain control in my life sooner. Before I started working with Jen, I had been in therapy and had just passed some difficult times in my mental health. I felt life was so pointless, I was never good enough, I felt so behind even though I came to America from China.

I needed someone who could help me see a better future for myself and help me move forward in it and Jen really helped me start to see that possibility. I was able to get more clarity in what I wanted in life and started being able to let go of my past, believe in myself and show up more confidently.”

— Jungao H.

 
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"The session really made me realize some of my really problematic ways of thinking. Ultimately, my take away from this is that your mindset and thoughts truly dictate your life and happiness. I had a lot of realizations about my need to always excel, be above average.

My thoughts controlled by the fact that without my accomplishments and accolades, people won't like my personality alone. My fear that I will never be worthy enough or loved unless I achieve a certain metric or criteria. At the end of the day, the only glow up you really need to have is your attitude towards yourself, your own happiness, and self worth.

— Lindsiann S.

 
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I was at a pretty low point. I’d wake up every day embarrassed of my body and the way I looked. I was trying to do better, to be better, but wasn’t sure how. I wasn’t giving my body the exercise it needed to be happy. I wasn’t spending any time alone. When I was alone, I was anxious. It was hard for me to feel like a normal person when I was surrounded by people. I wasn’t journaling, meditating, or expressing gratitude. Honestly I didn’t even know things like that could even help me.

I have truly grown as a person immensely since the beginning of working with Jen. I can embody the person I’ve always wanted to be, while realizing that there is always room to grow. I love that you talk through problems, but you focus on how to improve your life and set goals for your life. It is not just about your past, but your future. It sets yourself to a higher expectation and lets you hold yourself accountable, with the help of someone guiding you along the way. It is so worth it because it changes your entire mindset.

— Fiona D. (Read Fiona’s FULL transformation here)

 
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I just really had to let go of trying to please other people to move on with myself and find that confidence within myself… I was able to allow myself to take care of myself the way I want to and need to. I have been able to find a ton of joy in [weightlifting] and it has truly brought me to a better point in my life. It was the evidence I needed to feel like I was going in the right direction with my life. I feel like I was able to help myself more through coaching than anything else- like any diet or personal training.

— Sahar H.

 
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“Since I met Jen, I can see positive changes happening on me. I started to sleep earlier and cultivated that as a good habit now, after listening to Jen’s words that people can feel either exhausted or refreshed when they wake up, it all depends on what they think is more important at night when it’s time to sleep.

I’m no longer only focusing on the number shown on the weighing scale. I started to enjoy workout that brings me energy and refreshment. I’m more confident and more satisfied with my life now!”

— Alice C.

 
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I have been working with Jen for the past year since the pandemic took hold and life crawled to a standstill. Jen has a gift. Through constant incremental progress, I now eat better, sleep a full 8 hours and lift more weights than I did as a serious college athlete. In many ways she is the perfect coach - inspiring you through her own actions and way of life to push beyond your perceived limits. In my very busy life as a research professor and creative consultant for Hollywood, setting aside time to work with her has somehow become a nonnegotiable. Jen is good. Life-changing level of good.”

— Spiro M.

 

The Voice of Truth Often whispers

When you stop listening to all the noise that’s telling you you’re not enough and learn how to manage the distractions that are drowning out your intuition, you open up the space to receive your soul’s wisdom and guidance.

You start by detoxing the internalized patriarchal, misogynistic, racist, neurotypical, capitalist, industrialist societal narratives:

  • don’t be yourself

  • don’t trust your emotions

  • you need to earn love, respect, and time off from work

  • resting is lazy (and it’s the reason why you didn’t hit your goals)

  • your desires, curiosities, and interests are bad, unworthy, shameful, and (unless you’re the best at it) stupid

  • you’re broken, disordered, or missing something and need to be fixed

Take off the blinders that make it so easy to think, feel, and act like a robot and start being your true self.

The truth of your reality can be (and is already for so many people) if you choose to be:

  • your emotions are intelligent

  • you create value by embodying your true self, loving yourself, and sharing your gifts

  • rest is nourishing (and you actually grow more when you rest)

  • your desires, curiosities, and interests are universe-given, uniquely yours to explore, and are worthy uses of time

  • you’re completely whole, worthy, enough, and lovable as is

To be in a new reality, you first need to have the audacity to imagine it, then have the courage to live it, and finally trust your damn intuition to keep going and following the process NO MATTER WHAT.

See it in action

Watch these mini coaching sessions to get a feel for what Soul Whispering could be like for you

Here’s what to expect when we work together

You will be invited to evolve.

To go from the “figuring out who I am” to OWNING THE FUCK OUT OF WHO YOU ARE.

To change your mission from “figuring out what my place is in this world” to CLAIMING YOUR PLACE IN THIS WORLD.

To step out of doing what you think other people think you should do, and step into DOING YOU.

To stop running away from what you’re afraid of, and start RUNNING TOWARDS WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL ALIVE.

You will be invited to be freely you.

The version of you that’s so turned up, so leveled up, that you wouldn’t be afraid to fall in love on the first date.

The version of you that’s so dialed into what you want, that you wouldn’t hesitate to send your application out.

The version of you that’s so shameless about who you are, that you wouldn’t bat an eye at the idea of filming a TikTok in the middle of Rodeo Drive in a bikini and a pair of crocs.

You will be invited to deepen your self-intimacy.

To peel back the layer that says, “I feel like they don’t understand me,” to see the intellectualization of emotion, and actually allow yourself to feel the pain of being unseen.

To peel back the layer that says, “don’t be greedy,” to see the socialized shame of wanting to have and experience more, and actually allow yourself to un-shame your desires.

To peel back the layer that says, “if you really wanted it, you would’ve done it by now,” to see the self-gaslighting you trained yourself to do, and actually allow yourself to put down the beating stick.

You will be invited to be the hero.

To feel like you’re defeated, find strength to keep going, actually be defeated, yet still create the will to stand up again.

To feel bone-deep terror, yet still create the courage to step forward.

To feel lost on your journey, yet still create the trust in your skillset to always find your way.

You will be invited to fucking play.

To reconnect with that child-like wonderment that makes you go all wide-eyed like when you watched cookies rise in the oven and yearn for the chocolate chips melting into deliciousness.

To rekindle your effortless ability to imagine that makes you get teary-eyed as you create powerful visions for your life like when you watch a movie where the outcast finally finds their tribe.

To relearn how to have fun and stop taking life so seriously so you can make time for giggling, skipping, and lollygagging for the hell of it.

When you commit to working together, you make your results inevitable while inviting yourself to experience the full richness of being alive & the boundless joy that comes with you being your authentic self.

If you’re wondering…

  • Honestly, coaching found me.

    It was a calling that came to me after I climbed out of deep depression and suicidal ideation. I found myself in new territory- at peace with myself, feeling loved by others, and being connected with the world around me.

    I decided to pick up the call when I was 20 years old, studying abroad in Melbourne, Australia and decided I would start by helping women struggling with body image and disordered eating habits to make peace with their bodies and food.

    I certified as a personal trainer, and got started in training and coaching. Later, I certified as a nutrition coach, finished my degree from USC, and found that I wasn’t just helping people with food or exercise, but as a result I was helping them understand and love themselves in a way that positively affected their relationships and careers as well.

    That was soul-fulfilling.

    So I broadened my specialities, got certified from The Life Coach School, became a full-time coach and get to keep helping people in the best job ever that I created for myself.

    You can read more about my story here, but all in all, the reason why I started coaching is the reason why I keep coaching and see myself coaching forever. Because I love it.

  • Depends on your situation! If you’re actively dealing with a lot of unprocessed trauma, can’t take care of your basic needs (i.e. getting out of bed, eating, showering, getting to work), or have overwhelming thoughts about ending your life, then definitely consult with a therapist to help you get back on your feet.

    I have worked with many clients who choose to work with me while they work with a therapist (since the two modalities can be quite different or they have different intentions for the two. I’ve also had clients who have worked with therapists in the past, are in a good state of mind, but just haven’t been able to have the breakthroughs or particular results they were hoping for and wanted to explore coaching instead.

    It’s important to note that coaching is NOT a replacement for therapy, nor a clinical profession so if you need psychiatric support, please consult your doctor to refer you to the right mental health practitioner.

    If you’re unsure, we can discuss your situation in our spirit play date and I will point you in a direction if coaching isn’t the best fit for you right now.

  • Come as you are! I always do my best to meet you where you’re at, and there will never be a session that isn’t well-used.

    If you want to “prepare” anything, come with an intention for the session.

    FYI- I always start out each session with celebrations for the week and end with a review of your key takeaways. Sometimes, you will have challenges (a.k.a. invitations to play) that is specific to your growth area.

  • Yup! I’ve worked with teens ages 12-18 as well as young adults in college.

    If you’re a parent looking for coaching for your teen/ YA, please email me at jen@jencui.com with more details about what your concerns are & what your teen/ YA wants to achieve through coaching.

    I will follow up with more details on how we can work together if it’s a good fit, or offer recommendations for appropriate support.

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